‘While the cards are being shuffled, they’re random,’ I said. ‘Once they’re dealt they’re not random any more – you just don’t know what they are.
– Benedict Jacka, Chosen
There is a great difference between something being random and you not knowing the reason for it. Just because I don’t know the pattern behind someone’s actions does not mean people are acting randomly. Most people are not stupid or evil; they just have another set of rules, needs and preferences than you that they follow in life.