“You could find out most things, if you knew the right questions to ask. Even if you didn’t, you could still find out a lot.”
– Iain M. Banks, The Player of Games
The important thing is not that you ask the perfect question that will reveal everything or that the person you asked the question completely changes their view of the world. The important thing is that you ask questions, and listens to the answers. Then based on the answer you could ask another question and slowly get to the heart of the matter. Or you could choose to go and ask someone else questions.