“So that’s it? I say sorry, you say sorry and we both move on?” Galahad’s laugh was enough to force him to sit down. “It’s a good thing that we’re almost immortal, or the last thirty years would have felt like a really stupid waste of time.”
– Steve McHugh, With Silent Screams
We are not immortal, so going around for years being angry with someone is just a huge waste of time. Either decide to do something about it or let it go. This is not always easy, but we need to start focusing on what it is we need to move past the grudge instead of what the other person ‘should’ do.
It is not about who is right and who is wrong. It is about not wasting your time.